Our
beloved Ray passed on May Day; he was born in October of 1929 in
Scotia, simultaneous with the beginning of the Great Depression.
His immigrant parents (Yolanda and Giovanni/John) had come from Lucca
and Italian was his first language. He was raised in a boarding home
surrounded by saloons in Wildwood/Rio Dell. He went to sleep
listening to the music coming from the bars in his neighborhood. His
love of music, both contemporary and classical, had its beginnings
here; he knew all the songs from this night life. He loved to
whistle. He whistled through blindness, seizures, eight knees,
anosmia (loss of smell), freezing cold and after he broke a bunch of
teeth, he learned to whistle again. His mother called him ‘Testa
Dura’ because trouble and injury were his companions and yet he
continued. His whistling was his art but his positive attitude was a
gift from God. His high school sweetheart would become the love of
his life but first he joined the Marine Corp and fought in Korea. He
survived the battle of the Chosin Reservoir after enduring frostbite,
grenades and the loss of buddies. He would suffer the rest of his
life for this conflict but he never complained and he was proud he
helped South Korea enjoy freedom from tyranny. Ray was a Marine and
this shaped his life, he loved his fellow veterans.
Coming home, he went to HSU and became a teacher. He chose this ‘noble profession’ because he believed teaching would help him impact others the most. He taught at Arcata City Schools but spent most of his teaching career at Winship in Eureka. If you had him for a class you would remember him, a blind teacher named Mr. C. He was a disciplinarian his students respected. He loved swimming and he taught many how to swim. He loved shooting, reloading and hunting. His Tack Hammer club at Winship taught many how to shoot and hunter’s safety. He loved the outdoors and his guidance with Boy Scouts taught many to appreciate adventure and nature. He loved baseball so he coached. He loved his community and his involvement in Kiwanis helped serve this purpose, his Kiwanis club was dear to him.
He was married to his beloved wife Marilyn Ann Wise for 63 years. She was his rock, caregiver, loving companion and warden. Together they built a family. Two Sons, Lance (Vicki) and Kirk (Lynda) led to 7 grandchildren, Ellen (David), Cambria (Louis), Boaz, Nathan (Heidi), Moriah, Amos and Hadassah. He was preceded in death by his sister Melba and her husband Al Bianchini, by his brother-in-law Pete Hill and his sister-in-law Betty Wahl. His sister Jean Hill survives him. His nieces, nephews, cousins, neighbors and friends are all a part of his legacy for which he was very thankful.
The family was with him singing, telling stories, and caring for him when he went to glory. He had run his course, fought the good fight and set an example that inspires. He said not to cry for him but to laugh at the size of his nose. The family wants to thank St. Joseph ICU and Humboldt Hospice for their care and help. We would have loved to have shared this time with you in a celebration of his life and we are sorry that we cannot invite you to such an event. We encourage you to play some Sinatra, enjoy some big band music, teach someone, be caring and know Ray’s vision is now restored, he is whistling with the angels and he is with his Savior.
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