It is with heavy hearts that the family of Caleb Zane Pellegrini announce his passing on Monday, February 13, 2023, at the age of 40. The sudden and unexpected loss of Caleb leaves his family and friends saddened over such a tragedy. His absence is felt, and he is truly missed in so many ways.

Caleb was born February 3, 1983 in Eureka, where he lived with his mother, Shannon Pelligrini. At the age of 4, they moved to Willow Creek, where he attended Trinity Valley Elementary School. After graduating 8th grade, he and his mother moved back to Eureka. It was hard for Caleb to say goodbye to his friends, but he looked forward to attending Eureka Senior High School. Caleb made several lifelong friends in high school and graduated in 2001. After graduation, Caleb spent a year at College of the Redwoods before moving to Aptos, where he attended Cabrillo College. He studied psychology with a focus in behavioral therapy and educational services for people with autism. Caleb had a special place in his heart for people with disabilities and was grateful for the opportunity to work with this population. Eventually, Caleb moved to Santa Cruz and worked as a behavioral therapist for children and adults with disabilities.

Caleb absolutely loved Santa Cruz, developing many connections and friendships while living there. He continued to advocate for the autistic community, intolerable of any form of injustice or discrimination. He was a good friend to all of those he met, always willing to help when needed and listen when asked. He was supportive and could be depended on as a shoulder to cry on when a friend was in need. He enjoyed helping people solve problems, and his open mindedness helped him see different perspectives and and innovative solutions. Caleb’s optimistic disposition was magical, able to put a smile on anyone’s face. His emotional intelligence was calming and admirable, and his compassion was easily felt.

Wanting to be closer to his mother and friends, Caleb made a recent move back to Eureka. He was involved with the LGBTQ community here, and spent much of his time volunteering and advocating for Redwood Pride, Queer Humboldt and many other organizations. He valued equality and inclusion. Caleb would want his friends and family to remember that there is power in knowledge — you will become stronger if you are true to yourself and who you really are. Caleb had an immeasurable amount of love to share and truly believed everybody had the right to be free from discrimination.

Those who knew Caleb will remember and treasure his kindness, humor, eternal smile and beautiful soul. He was like a guardian angel during his short time here on earth and his spirit will continue to watch over his family and friends from above. He is deeply and forever missed by many.

Caleb was preceded in death by his beloved Nan (Darlene Pellegrini Robertson) and his fur babies (Chester and ChubChub) May his soul rest in peace and those affected find peace in his absence.

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