Lee Earnest Astorino
November 25, 1947 – August 3, 2024

Lee Earnest Astorino peacefully passed away on August 3, 2024, surrounded by dear friends whom he cherished as family, following a brief illness. His departure has left an irreplaceable void in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know him.

Born on November 25, 1947, in Manhattan Beach, California, Lee was the younger of two children. From his earliest days, he had a natural charisma that drew people to him, and he cherished every friendship he formed. Lee had an incredible gift of remembering those who crossed his path, always greeting them with warmth and kindness. A man of profound moral integrity, his heart was as clear and generous as it was steadfast.

Lee spent his early years in the sunshine of Manhattan Beach, raised in a loving home by parents who were both educators. During his high school years at Mira Costa High School, Lee immersed himself in drama and choir, two passions that remained central to his life. After graduation, Lee proudly served his country in the Marine Corps, completing a tour of duty in the Vietnam War.

His love for the theater never wavered, and it was while volunteering at a local playhouse that Lee’s life changed forever. At a pre-show cocktail party, he met Robert, the man who would become the love of his life. Together, they shared a love story filled with devotion, joy, and laughter that spanned decades.

In 1986, Lee, Robert and their two beloved dogs, Killer and Princess, moved to their “temporary” home in Eureka while planning to build their dream house. Although that house never came to be, they created something far greater — a home filled with love, friendship and lasting memories.

Lee’s diverse talents and interests were reflected in his life. He loved cars, co-owned an appliance store with his brother, and ran his own gardening service. Anyone lucky enough to attend one of his tea parties could witness his passion for gardening firsthand. He loved taking long walks, working out in his home gym and playing Pinochle. Lee and Robert’s annual Christmas Open House was a hallmark of their life together, with elaborate decorations and joyful celebrations for over a decade.

Around 1993, Lee began working at Etter’s Victorian Glass, specializing in picture framing. For approximately 22 years, he worked alongside Bill Etter, enjoying every moment of crafting art for his community. After Bill’s passing, Lee purchased the frame shop and continued to nurture its legacy until his last days.

A man of deep commitment to his loved ones, Lee experienced one of his happiest moments on October 13, 2013, when he and Robert exchanged vows in front of their closest friends — a day that will forever remain etched in their hearts.

Beyond his personal passions, Lee was devoted to his community. He was actively involved in the Masonic fraternity and proudly served as Master of Ferndale Lodge #193 F&AM. He held many offices in the Order of the Eastern Star, serving as Worthy Patron in both Ferndale Chapter #23 and Camellia-Star #63. Lee also belonged to the Northern Valley of Scottish Rite Masons, was a dedicated leader in the Order of the DeMolay and served as Rainbow Dad in Humboldt Assembly #216 International Order of Rainbow for Girls.

Through these organizations, Lee was honored with many accolades, including the prestigious Hiram Award (Freemasons), the Service Award (Order of the Eastern Star), Knight Commander of the Court of Honor (Scottish Rite Masons) and the Degree of Chevalier (Order of the DeMolay). Lee’s life exemplified service to others—he was known for his honesty, fairness, kindness and commitment to his community.

Lee was also active in the town of Ferndale, his church and with hospice care. A dedicated volunteer, he cherished his role as a docent at the Ferndale Museum, sharing his love for the town’s rich history.

Preceded in death by his father Lawrence Astorino, his mother Patricia (Jellison) Astorino, his brother Michael Astorino and his husband Robert Schorer, Lee is survived by a few cousins, beloved in-laws, nieces and nephews, and countless friends who were, in every sense, his family.

A celebration of Lee’s extraordinary life will be held Sunday, September 29 at 2:00 PM at the Ferndale Veterans Memorial Building in Ferndale, CA. Please join us in celebrating this extraordinary man. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the Ferndale Museum in remembrance of Lee.

Lee Earnest Astorino will be truly missed by all who had the honor of knowing him, but his spirit of kindness, love and unwavering dedication to others will live on forever in our hearts.

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